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February 08

Subject: Dynamic Pathways - February Newsletter
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Taking time for "me"
Doing what is important for balance and growth
February 2008
 
New Life!

I am returned from a personal hiatus. I had a number of months directed at writing my doctor of ministry dissertation and then a few more studying for general surgery recertification. In all the turmoil and expectation I found time to reflect on priorities and goals.

We will examine some of those epiphanies in this newletter.

Choosing Our Directions
Delineating priorities
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My surgical life recycles every ten years. I am required to recertify in surgery every tenth anniversary of my original certification. Recertification time tends to be a time of nervousness, and worrying about all the information I have forgotten since the previous examination. Intellect and confidence eventually prevail, but the background drama always reappears as part of the process.

We tend to overlook much in life, or we just can't fit in to our busy schedule. Whatever "it" may be often passes us by, never to return. Time to study for recertification allows me to call up forgotten information and to update in areas of surgery which are not my areas of specialization. Once again I fluff out those areas that have been compressed by disuse.

As I was reviewing my updates, I began to think about friends and loved ones with whom I have lost touch. I decided it was time for me to recertify some old friendships. How often do we take time to reconnect with friends we've lost because we got "too busy?" My process of recertifying for surgery gifted me with a rekindling of friendships with classmates from high school, college and residency. I discovered that while our paths have diverged, we still share many commonalities. It is interesting and rewarding to see how we have expanded to our potential and grown more into who we really are. grown and expanded toward our greater potential

Making Room In Your Life
 
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Your body and your living environment heavily determine the kind of energy in your life.

Is your living environment stuffed and cluttered? Do you feel like you have no room to move? Do you find you have no time in your life for partner, or kids, or friends? In Feng Shui clutter and mess is considered to be procrastination and an obstacle to progress.

A great way to begin creating time and space in your life is to find a closet, room or car to clean out. The only way to overcome inertia is to initiate motion. What may seem like a daunting task, doesn't seem so terrible once you begin to clear your way.

By committing one day, one afternoon or one hour to yourself, you will find more space in your life becoming available...or you will be creating a place for new opportunity and new people, or you may open space for old possibilities and old friendships.

Be Bold. Be selfish. Take some time for yourself. You will find it translates into finding time for others. You'll discover you have time for those special people and special activities that haven't been nurtured for so long.

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Pausing for Pleasure
Sweet Temptations
chocolate

What do we use in times of stress to gain that warm fuzzy sensation that calms our nerves? For some it is drugs or alcohol. For many it is food. Chocolate is a sweet indulgence that is finding some areas of validity in the wellness world.

Modern science is finding a scientific, chemical basis to many of the original benefits ascribed to chocolate. Potential heart-health benefits are attributed, in part, to chocolate's flavonoids, the same type of phytochemicals found in tea and red wine. Tests have shown that the flavonoids in chocolate are particularly potent antioxidants. Chocolate also contains some plant sterols, B vitamins, magnesium, copper, potassium, and other heart-healthy substances.

Chocolate may benefit the heart in several ways. One study showed that drinking a fat free cocoa beverage had a blood thinning aspirin-like effect. Cocoa has also been shown to have an ability to relax and dilate blood vessels, allowing better blood flow. The benefits, however, continue only as long as the beverage intake continues. There is also some evidence that cocoa drinks may be of benefit in affecting cholesterol levels and lowering blood pressure.

Science is catching up with women, who already are aware that chocolate enhances their mood. Chocolate contains many different compounds that improve mood and alleviate anxiety. Mood elevators like serotonin, endorphins and phenylethylamine are all found in chocolate. It also contains the stimulants caffeine and theobromine, and the amphetamine-like compounds tyramine and phenylethylamine.

The best advice is "all things in moderation." Balance your desired caloric intake with the benefits derived from the sweet morsel of dark chocolate. Eat chocolate that is at least 65% cocoa. The higher the cocoa content, the better.

Spiritual Searching
 
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The writing of my dissertation took me on the journey forward and backward. it is entitled, The Outsider Coming Home: Finding the Tao in Meister Eckhart. It is an existential examination of my personal journey in life dealing with the feelings of being an outsider in multiple aspect of my life. I was able to examine, evaluate and celebrate the growth and expansion in my personal, professional and spirtiual life as my feelings of outsider gave way to the understanding of the interconnectedness and oneness of all creation.

Many people experience the feeling of outsider, of not fitting in. My writing has led me to realize that the majority of this feeling comes from a spiritual disconnect, and once we regain that connection between our being and What IS, the feelings of outsider quickly fade.

If you would like to discuss your spirtual journey, your feelings of disconnection, or if you would like to read the entire dissertation, email

At Dynamic Pathways Wellness Center we know that your life will go in the direction you point your energy.

When your time and mind are focused on the things you truly desire your heart will have no choice but to make those things appear in your life.

Do not be distracted by the obstacles to your heart's desires. Maintain the quality and quantity of your attention on your true goals.

Be well until our next visit


Tom Stempel, Cory Lemberger, Janice Skelton and Nathan Shannon
Dynamic Pathways Wellness Center
phone: 602.254.0071